15TH YEARS OF MARRIAGE

20th of October 15 years ago is the day I married my darling and after 15 years of marriage, I have another little darling from our union.

We are always a threesome wherever we go or whatever we do. And today we are sitting in this wonderful Japanese Restaurant celebrating the good fortune that we are blessed with.

I feel blessed to have these two wonderful people in my life and I would not trade anything in the world for it.

I may have made many mistake past and presence but I immersed from it all to be a better person everyday through the guided hands of my beloved family.

There are days when the moon is full and my madness erupted but I am surprised that I can keep it under control unlike during my younger days, I will spiral out of control.

That's what you call love. Ha....a ferocious tiger like me turning into a docile kitten.

It is not always bed full of roses in a marriage though. We have been through some turbulence times but we will always sort out our differences immediately.

By doing that, we will not have any ill-feeling against each other.

I have also learned that compromising, patience and communication goes a long way in a marriage also.

I am no expert in marriage talk but I am willing and am still learning everyday.

Happy 15th Wedding Anniversary to me and my beloved family..

A BATTLE WELL WON

YESSSSS...... I survive, I won the battle.

Finally it is over. Dust, dirt or whatever you are, I prove to you that I can withstand all your destruction and comes out even stronger than before.

It takes 3 months for everything to be finalised but the hard works pays off and of course it also burn a hole in my husband pocket.

Fifteen years ago when we got married, we extended the kitchen only as we were on a budget and the car porch was in it's original state.

Our second renovation to this house now is extending the car porch and erecting a new fence with automatic gate and repainting the whole house. There are also wear and tear that needs to be looked into.

Sounds like very minor job right?

Ha...I was also fooled into thinking that but was I so wrong.

The minute the workman set his foot into the house there is no stopping.....bang, bong, whack...whatever you name it.

I have to admit that all the hard work it was like killing two bird with one stone.

On the positive note, I lost a few kilos of my weight and we get to enjoy an almost new house and the sad news for my husband is the boss of the construction company goes home with a fat check.

Now whenever we are going out or returning home, it is no longer an issue of getting wet if it rains as we have the luxury of sitting in the car and with a magic touch of our tiny weeny thumb, voila....the gate open by itself.

Our pet bunny is also getting fatter now that she is also enjoying a bigger and cooler place.

Yes, hard work it is but it is well worth the effort but I also swear there will be no more renovation to this house anymore.