FATHER AND DAUGHTER

It was love at first sight, and since then, it's been 13 years since this precious little gem came into our live.

A precious Valentine card.....

I call her the third party because I am on second ranking since her invasion.

Father and daughter having a splashing good time.

My husband doted on her like a mother hen would over her chicks.

I definitely do not mind  to be demoted when the doting father would jump out of the bed in the middle of the night over the slightest whimper coming from the cradle.

Hanging on to daddy....

Now you know why being second is a blessing for mommy...but most of all, nothing makes me love my husband more than seeing how much he loves our little daughter.

Happy together....

He would spoilt her rotten and she has definitely got him wrapped around her little fingers, not to take advantage of him, but more just for the comfort of knowing he is there for her.

The little princess has grown into a young lady and daddy is as protective as ever and he is actively involved in her daily development.

A rabbit's ear for daddy....

It is a blessing to see father and daughter sharing such a strong bond together and they adores each other.

Hellooo.. there....

He does not see the awkwardness of her teenage years, her tantrums and neither does he see her mistakes or the secrets she keeps.

Getting the young lady for school...a daily affair

They say that a daughter is a man,s lover from his past life and this is so true....

A handmade Father's Day card...

On father's day, she wrote him this little note that really melt his hearts..

"YOU MAY NOT BE MY PRINCE BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY KING"

Cute handmade Birthday Card.....

Whoever she grows up to be, she is always to him that little girl in pigtails.

A heart for daddy...

JUDGEMENT OVERKILL

My daughter feels stress out whenever we have a family gathering.

My husband family....his sisters and brothers with their spouse and children.

You see, there is this particular aunt who loves to pass unkind judgment on the youngsters except her own.

We are all judgmental. Yes, even you. I certainly am and many times too.. I think it,s human nature.

My family....

But be careful, do not overkill it.

These young's  may have forgotten how to live outside of electronic gadgetry and high-end coffee shop or those who really want to live like those awful reality show personalities calling everyone "babe" or "darling"

Think about it for a second.  Do not pass judgment on people based on their looks or actions without making an effort to understanding them or see whether our judgment is right or wrong. We were young once.....

Niece, nephew, uncle and aunt celebrating Chinese New Year in harmony...

As aunt or uncle, we don,t have to be as hip as  them and neither do we demand that they bow down to us just so we are older but instead we should try to communicate and understand each other by building a bridge between two human beings.

The kind aunt may have good intention but probably did not realize that she is overdoing it and everytime when there is a family gathering, the kids will avoid her like she has some kind of contagious disease.

Fooling around...who says there's generation gap...

Rambling aside, after talking to my daughter, I have to re-assessment myself to make sure I am not another annoying agony aunt.

Of course I would be a damn hypocrite if I deny that I have not step over the line sometimes in my entire life but for now, the young ones have not treated me like a diseased aunt yet......


"Be curious, not judgmental" - WALT WHITMAN